ETIQUETTE and CORRECTING A MISSTEP​

First impressions are important.  My time and my energy are sacred and to be respected.

     

I truly enjoy working with men who are new to this lifestyle.  If you are new, know that your training begins now.

Think of etiquette as energetic hygiene-- your first offering of respect, clarity, and intention that allows us to meet in a space of mutual honor.  

​

Missteps:​

I understand that many men have been conditioned to speak with women—especially in spaces like this—in ways that are rushed, transactional, or unclear. Old habits die hard. But here, you’re entering a different field. One of presence, sovereignty, and energetic integrity.

​

If you’ve already reached out to Me without following this etiquette and received no reply, you may still have the opportunity to reset the tone.  We all make mistakes and that is why I offer the possibility of correcting a misstep—because I know how deeply transformative this work can be, once it begins in the right tone.

​

 

When you approach Me with reverence, you receive more than just a session, you step into a rare current of devotion that lingers, sharpens, and trains you beyond our time together.

​​

 

 

INITIAL COMMUNICATION ETIQUETTE

 

Please take care with how you first reach out to Me. This is part of your training—and part of your energetic hygiene. I value clarity, intention, and respect.

 

• Messages like “hey,” single-word intros, or unsolicited photos will be ignored and blocked.

• Long-winded emails or texts without prior permission will also be flagged or disregarded. This includes long backstories, unless a tribute has been given.

 

 To make a respectful first impression, follow the protocol below:

 

After your initial tribute, please greet Me with:

“Hello Goddess” or “Hello Miss Solara.”

 

Then, in clear full sentences, include:

a. Your name

b. How you would like to train with Me (in-person session, virtual call/video, or custom content)

c. Two to three sentences including: your experience level, length of time exploring this path, and a brief description of your interests- you can find some of my interests on my About Solara page. 

 

End with:

“Thank you and your name.”

 

This structure honors My time and creates the clean, devotional container required for us to begin.

​